10.4.05

? + ? = friendship with ex

last few days, i was watching sex and the city.. nice movie.. make me knew many characters of persons.. carrie, samantha, charlotte, miranda..
i found many interesting things in that movie.. inspired me much.. one of that interesting and inspiring thing is my title above..

what + what = friendship with exboyfriend

maybe not really interesting for other people, but at least for me, it make me rethinking about my past relationship and my condition now..
i'm now someone's fiance, and we'll getting married in this year (insya Allah..)
i have a good relationship with my ex.. good relationship means i still can talk to them, when i need to, and they also can call me and talk to me if they need me.. and i must make sure that my fiance is fine with that situation.. til now, everythings going fine.. he never complain me for my relationship with my ex.. and thats enough for now..
i'm happy coz my ex are ready to move on to a new relationship, except one person.. hope he find a new love as soon as possible..
i dont want my engagement disturb by an affair, specially with my ex.. no way! i dont like the way carrie treat big.. i see big is trying to disturb carrie n aiden new relationship, in many ways, although he has been married with natasha.. and carrie can do nothing to prevent big's attack..
i think it's not a healthy relationship, between carrie and big and, between big and natasha..
about my now relationship, i dont think i've finished to make a conciliation with my old relationship, specially with him, but i'm sure, my fiance is the best.. he's a gift from God for me, to be my life-time friend.. all i have to do is berdamai dengan masa lalu.. help me God..
huf! thank God, everything is okei.. and i hope everything gonna be okei for the rest of my life..
amin.

3 comments:

Soulful said...

This is my favorite post sejak gue baca2 blog lo chi.. duh senangnya yg mau married (semoga) tahun ini! Just keep the faith. Kalau dia memang untukmu, maka takkan ada tembok setinggi apa pun dan sungai selebar apa pun yg bisa merintangi kasih kalian (mas pujo gitu loohhh) hehe. Berdamai dgn masa lalu perlu waktu kan, so walk thru it slowly but confidently ;)

Soulful said...

I think the same way chi, kalo memang di depan mata loe sang mantan uda move on dengan kebahagiannya yg baru, yah ngga sepantasnya dia diganggu sama bekas pacarnya. I don't have respects for this kind of people.

Anonymous said...

hwayaaa.. stuju plik.. gua jg gak seneng tu yg bgtu2..
yah, dtunggu doanya aja, ibu pengantar surat cinta.. oia plik, fyi, tnyata itu surat bkn surat cinta, tp udah ky ngirim suart buat temen lama.. alaaaaah, mas pujo, mas pujo..